These are just a few of the questions that we got when we went to talk about our vows with our officient (shes professing)! Both are to answer the questions seperatly then compare answers. I'll try to find ones that may still apply to people who've been married for awhile. i think it would be fun to answer these questions throughtout marriage..thats why i'm posting some..maybe someone else would like to try that! I think len and I will do alright with getting the same answers! We've nearly talked about all of them! I really like these questions below..
*who will "keep the books"?
*what will we save for?
*are we going to keep a budget?
*name something you'd enjoy doing together____
*how important are vacations to you and how often do you prefer vacations?
*how will we make major decisions?
*my role as mother/father
*who will help the children with homework?
*how will we divide chores at home?
*how will we teach our children to pray?
*do you prefer to read/study together, alone, read and discuss?
*how do you feel about taking a job that requires you or your spouse to miss meeting consistaently?
*how do you feel about pets in your home. If you want pets how many and what kinds?
*do you like to ahve a lot of company? how much is a lot?
*what kinds of entertainment is ok to have in our home?
*when children are of age how do you feel about them participating in sports, drama, extracurricular activities?
*how will your parents grandparent?
*how important is family time and what do you want to do as a family?
*how do you feel about disagreeing?
*what do i do when i'm angry?
*do we always have to agree on everything?
*what is the hardest topic for me to discuss with you?
*I need to know you love me. How do i know that you love me?
*how will i show you that i love you?
*the amount of affection that i need from you
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